And what does that even mean? That is not an answer. Give me an advantage that I can recognize as an advantage and tell me how I can renounce it.

“Don’t use those advantages” What might that be? Do you know of an advantage I use or what I could do to renounce it?

“Be a part of the whole” How can I not be?

“Don’t center yourself” I’m not even certain what that means in this.

“Live like people who aren’t White and don’t have those advantages” I live with a brown lady. My neighbors on one side are black. On the other side, Spanish speaking Mexicans. Across the street, an interracial couple; a black man and white woman. What should I be doing that I’m not to live like them?